The Company You Keep
My brother Tom & I while hiking at Lost Dutchman State Park.
The people you surround yourself with have a huge impact on your happiness, confidence, and peace of mind. Healthy relationships matter. The people closest to us influence the way we see ourselves, the energy we carry, and how we move through difficult seasons of life. When you surround yourself with supportive, encouraging people, it becomes easier to grow, take chances, and enjoy life more fully. That is why it is so important to pay attention to the company you keep.
Our hang out view on Siphon Draw trail.
I see so many people pour themselves into others while forgetting to protect their own peace in the process. I am prone to it too. But when we constantly give our energy to relationships, environments, or situations that leave us feeling drained, overlooked, or emotionally exhausted, it slowly chips away at our confidence and joy. At some point, we have to stop questioning our worth and start protecting it.
While I was in Arizona visiting family, I spent a lot of time hiking and having late night talks with my little brother Tom. He has always been one of my biggest cheerleaders, not just for me, but for his family and the people around him. One of our adventures we hiked the Siphon Draw Trail and eventually sat on a huge rock overlook near the saddle, talking for hours about life, family, struggles, growth, and happiness. The desert was quiet except for the wind brushing through the mountains, and sometimes those are the moments where things become very clear.
Tom has worked incredibly hard to build a successful professional career, but even more importantly, he has built a rich life full of strong friendships, family, and meaningful relationships. During our conversation, he shared something he tells his sons:
On the way up!
“In your career and professional development, learn from the people who know the struggle because they have lived it. Keep the people who uplift you in your life if you want to be happy and successful.” — Tom Cooley 🌵
That stayed with me.
Not because life is about removing every difficult person or avoiding challenges. Relationships take grace, patience, and understanding. But there is something powerful about surrounding yourself with people who encourage your growth, celebrate your wins, and make life feel lighter instead of heavier.
It is always worth taking an honest look at your life. What is uplifting you? What is weighing you down? Which relationships leave you feeling inspired, peaceful, and valued? Which ones leave you emotionally tired or disconnected from yourself?
The same goes for environments, habits, jobs, and even the way we talk to ourselves.
We are given a short time on this earth. Your energy is valuable. Your heart is valuable. Your time is valuable.
Spend it with people who remind you of your strength, speak life into your dreams, and encourage you to become the best version of yourself.
Find those people.
Keep those people.
And be one of those people too.
How do you balance protecting your peace while still caring deeply about people or situations in your life? Is this something you have struggled with too?
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